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I have to admit something…

As I get older, I’ve become much lazier.  A few years back, I was one of those guys who obsessed with approaching women and using the “PERFECT” opener.  A great night for me was leaving a bar with 5 or more phone numbers in my pocket.

Bottom line I was obsessed with being able to approach ANY woman and start a conversation.

But now as I get older, my goals have changed.  I no longer get that much excitement from the “thrill of the hunt”.  Instead I simply want to enjoy my life and share it with someone
meaningful.  Furthermore, I DON’T LIKE approaching groups of  women and trying to find that RARE GIRL who matches my strict requirements for someone I want to date.

Simply put- I want to meet women WITHOUT doing a lot of work!

Now as my goals have changed, so have the ways that I go about meeting women.  What I’m starting to do lately is implement techniques that are known as “Natural Attraction”.  This is
where you concentrate on building the kind of life YOU want and use it to attract different women.

In other words, a naturally attractive personality gets women to approach YOU.  With that being said, let me cover some of my FAVORITE ways you can incorporate this principle into YOUR lifestyle:

#1- Live Your Life

Without trying to sound TOO “meta-physical”, a man living his ‘purpose’ is a guy who is naturally attractive to women.

A quality woman wants someone who is living his dream.  He talks about his passions and makes her part of HIS world.  This man can communicate (or show) why he does the things he loves and connects to the things that SHE loves.

So the first (and most important) step to getting a woman to approach you is to start doing the things that you love!

Find your dream job.  Travel the world.  Enjoy your hobbies.

By concentrating on doing the things that YOU love, you’ll communicate a level of excitement that most guys don’t offer.

And when you do the things you love, it’s only natural to attract someone to you that mutually shares this desire.  That means as you’re enjoying your life, you’re more likely to draw a woman in that shares your desires.

#2- Expand Your Social Circle

Think about the last time a buddy recommended a movie to you…Did you go see it?

Well if you’re like most people, you paid attention to this recommendation and watched the film.

The simple truth is we pay CLOSE ATTENTION to the advice of friends.  When a trusted source tells us to do something, we’re more likely to get out there and do it!

You can apply this principle to your dating life.  One of the QUICKEST ways to get women to come to you is to expand your social circle.

You’ll find that it’s MUCH easier to attract the interest of women who are ALREADY friends of people you know.  And if you’re living your life to the fullest, you’ll have a naturally  attractive personality that’ll magnetically draw women in.

So get out there and make friends!  Even if someone doesn’t seem to match your lifestyle, make the effort to be friendly and outgoing.  You’ll be surprised at the results you’ll get when  you expand your social circle.

#3- Develop Your Own Style

I have to admit that my looks are about average.  The funny thing is I’m able to get a lot of women to APPROACH ME, simply by the way that I dress.

Getting women to approach you means standing out from the crowd in a unique manner.

So to maximize your chances for success, I recommend you  cultivate an image that’s unique while remaining congruent to your personality.

In other words, be the guy who is different from other men.

Developing a unique sense of style isn’t that hard to do.  You can start by buying a FEW set of outfits that fit well.  Then get a few accessories (watches, rings, hats, etc) that most guys
wouldn’t wear.  You can easily get style inspiration by reading through magazines like GQ and Details.

Now you don’t have to COMPLETELY overhaul your wardrobe.  Just make sure that when you go out in public, you’re wearing something that’s cool and unique

#4- Develop Your Leadership Qualities

THE quickest way to get women to approach you is to develop the quality of leadership.  From the dawn of time, women have been naturally attracted to the leaders or the ‘alpha males’ of the group.

When you’re in a social setting, you want to be the guy that’s leading the conversation and being the provider of fun.  Be the guy who makes plans for your social group.  Introduce people that don’t know one another.  Act as if you’re in charge and people ALWAYS pay attention to the things you say.

Developing a leadership quality involves a number of skills and attributes.  You have to take control of social situations. You should be able to tell stories. You need to playfully banter with people.  AND you should know how to have engage someone on an intimate, yet fun level.

While this requires a bit of work on your part, these ARE skills that CAN be learned.  In Steve Scott’s Flirt Mastery guide, he provides an entire system for developing a high-status, leader quality that can help you flirt with women and create attraction.

Imagine this…

You’re at a bar and see a cute girl.  You take action and confidently approach her.  She responds to your conversation starter and seems pretty interested.

Now what?

If you’re like most guys, you WORRY so much about the “pick up line” that you give no thought to what you’ll say once you’re talking to a girl.

The truth is this is NOT your fault!  It seems like the Internet is FILLED with products that ONLY concentrate on approaching OR using weird, canned routines.

So you’ve probably haven’t seen anything about one of the FUNDAMENTAL ingredients to attraction:

HOW TO FLIRT AND TALK TO WOMEN

You see, your ability to carry a conversation is directly related to ability to attract the interest of a woman.

Unfortunately, most products COMPLETELY ignore this aspect of attraction OR minimally cover the basics of flirting.  So up till now, you probably haven’t had a chance to learn the VITAL skills necessary for flirting with a woman.

Here’s a simple question I want you to ask yourself:

“Do I Want to Date Hot Women?”

I’m not talking about your average girl at the bar who is okay looking.  I’m talking about the kind of woman who walks by and EVERY guy stops what he’s doing.  This is the type of girl that MOST men can only dream of dating.

Almost every guy I’ve met wants to date a woman like this…Yet, most never have a chance!

Why’s that?

Well the answer is simple… Your average guy doesn’t even try!

Typically, when a man sees a woman like this, he’ll have a brief fantasy about what it would be like to date her.  BUT, when it comes time to “man up” and approach, he makes an excuse about how he has no chance.

Allow me to let you in on a little secret…

99% of men make excuses when it comes time to approach a very attractive woman.  Typically, they SETTLE for the woman they think they can get.  Without even trying, these guys simply give up!

On the other hand, there’s the 1% of men who aren’t afraid to take a chance.  Even if they don’t attract the interest of the girl, they STILL have the courage to try!

So what’s my point?

In order to “get” (and date) hot women, you have to take a chance!

To reword a famous quote by Wayne Gretsky, “The only time you have 0% chance of success is when you don’t take a shot!”

Now if you find yourself tongue-tied and unable to approach the beautiful women you see, then you should get to the root of your mental stumbling block.  In fact, there is a two-step solution to this problem.

First, you need to create a POWERFUL mindset when it comes to women.

To get over this hump, you should create a list of affirmations that you review on a daily basis.  These are sayings that you recite which create a positive state of mind.  For instance, you could use affirmations that sound like this:

• “I’m a good looking guy”
• “I can successfully approach women”
• “I have a lot to say to women during a conversation”
• “I am a fun, energetic guy”

With affirmations, you can REPROGRAM your mind to think in a positive manner that’ll make you more attractive and interesting to women.

The second solution is a little more difficult.  You need to understand the RIGHT way to communicate.  The major problem that guys have around a beautiful woman is they simply don’t know how to talk.

Honestly, creating attraction with an suber-hot girl comes down to ONE thing: Knowing how to flirt.  If you can flirt, you speak to girls on a level that most guys fail to
understand.

Flirting isn’t about asking questions.  And it’s not about seeking rapport.  In fact, flirting can be quickly created by avoiding statements that guys often use to establish a
common interest.

In essence, flirting is about creating sexual tension. It’s that delicate balance between teasing a woman, while making her work for YOUR attention.

So if you want to attract (and date) a hot woman, the best way to make an impression is to NOT compliment her or do what other guys do.  Instead boldly approach her and find a way to create that sexual tension that’s necessary for all flirting conversations!

You’ll find that subtly teasing and bantering is one of the BEST ways to attract even the most attractive of all women.

Interpreting Body Language Attraction Signals

Did you know that body language of men and women change largely in the presence of the opposite gender. For example, a man will automatically recover his posture, be a little higher, and avoid common subsidence or slouching.

When a man is in the company of a woman who is interested, they will make every effort to appear more dominant and expand his chest forward.

Attraction Gestures Men Use

Basically, men do not have a large inventory of attraction and flirting gestures in relation to women. When a man is interested in a woman, focusing his efforts to prove his masculinity and macho image of a man.

His movements often begin with patting the hair in place, straighten his clothes, adjusting his tie, if he uses one, and often push the chin forward. At the same time, expanding his chest, straighten his back and draw in the stomach.

Attraction Gestures Women Use

But when a woman is interested in a man, tons of signs and signals they show to notify him of her feelings. Unfortunately, many men are totally unaware of these signs and signals. Worse, the women inadvertently sends mixed signals when they try to manipulate men to show her feelings for him.

One of the most common gestures used by a woman around a man who is playing with her hair. What happens here is that women flick their hair away from her face or shoulder in a sensual way. Surprisingly, this gesture is also with women with short hair mainly focusing in the bangs.

Intimate Zone

Each person has their own area intimately. The size of this zone can vary from one person to another person but only to a minimum. It begins with their own body, extends to a foot and a half / two feet away. To them, this intimate area “belongs” to them, or are considered “theirs”.

Parents, brothers, husbands, lovers, children, relatives and close friends will continue normally within 18 inches/50 centimeters from each other. Like them, only those considered as emotionally close to us can afford to break the barrier of space and into the intimate zone. Any alien who enters without invitation this area is considered an act of intimidation and hostility, which leads the person away from immediate intrusion.

Beauty, they say, in The Eye of the Beholder

Women in general tend to attract men who are powerful, secure and independent, qualities that strongly suggest the person as a competent and reliable supplier of a father to his children. Moreover, what men find attractive in women is usually based more on the outside visually appealing.

In both cases, men or women, focusing on these qualities, always hoping to make us more attractive (beauty or personality) to the opposite sex and have a wider choice peers may choose.

If concern for others is demonstrated through body language, never be used to manipulate others. People really are those which are seen as they really are, and always believe in themselves.

Cheesy pick-up lines are out, and aggressive flirting body language is in. The fact is, your body language attraction is more powerful than anything you might say to a woman. Here are some reasons why this seduction tool is so powerful.

First, you can flirt with a woman from across the room just by showing her you’re interested. Second, a woman will feel more comfortable talking to a guy who’s already showing signs of being interested (women hate rejection, too!).

So what flirting body language signals can you send out to women so they can tell at once that you’re a single guy who’s out to interact and have fun? Here are three examples.

1. Be Open to Greetings and Smiles.

If you’ve seen a guy huddled all by himself inside a bar teeming with beautiful ladies in need of someone to flirt with, what is the first thing that comes to mind? You’d think that this guy doesn’t want to interact, and is probably in the process of drowning his sorrows by drinking. Needless to say, not a single female will approach him. You have to face the crowd even if you’re alone.

Check out the design of the place (including the women milling around). Make eye contact with women who are checking you out in return. Say hello and smile when a woman passes by. Maintaining an ‘open’ body language will increase the likelihood that you’re going to meet a woman you can date later.

2. Wink.

There’s a proper way of winking that won’t tag you as a creep. It’s actually quite simple but guys miss this entirely. Smile broadly before you wink. Smiling takes the edge off your unprecedented eye play because it serves as a greeting.

This is particularly helpful if the woman is positionally inaccessible (like when she’s seated with her friends and you’re standing by the bar). Smiling and winking will effectively put you on her to-talk-to list for the night (if she doesn’t come right over and talk to you immediately!).

3. Tilt your head when she says something interesting.

Some men have faces that really don’t show much expression. If you’re one of these men who were born with a ‘perennial poker face’, you can express your interest by tilting your head towards her.

All these body language cues help when you want to establish rapport with women.

The realm of Body Language Attraction is something that has come to light in recent years. The reason is that most people have come to realize that signs of body language attraction is everywhere. Whether in a bar or local library, people of the opposite gender are likely to send pull things in their subconscious.

There is a difference between where a male and female chooses to send signals. In general, women are more attracted to the alpha-male. This is characterized as a man who is independent, strong and firm. In contrast, men, physical attraction is the primary factor, rather than personality characteristics.

Body language signals women are naturally eager to show their ability to carry a child. Physically, women generally have rounded lips, smooth skin, thin eyebrows and no facial hair. Compared to a man the size of a woman waist is smaller, pelvis broader and legs slender.

It’s a different story for women who prefer a man with firm buttocks, a flat stomach, muscular and five to six inches taller than them. Unlike men, the physical appearance is not always important to women. Women are usually factor in the character quality as well when seeking a partner. Research has found that the eyes are much less important for women as they are for men and are attracted to men who possess attributes such as personality, loyalty, firmness and sense of humor.

So you know a bit about the psychology of what men and women think that when choosing a mate. Now, if you meet their needs, then send body language attraction signals. It is important to keep an eye on them.

Attraction signals sent by women include:
Shaking her hair – What happens here is that the women pull their hair away from her face or shoulder in a sensual way.
Touching Self – When a woman gently touching the neck or thigh, she is telling the man she is interested.
Baring neck – This is another sign of submission when the woman bares her neck to the man tilting her head to one side of the shoulder.

Attraction signals sent by men include:
Posture – A man tries to appear more dominant and the alpha-male as the sketch in the stomach, straighten his back and extend his chest forward.
The setting of the clothes and hair -A man will dust off his clothes, fix his hair, adjusting his tie and collar.
Other signs – A man normally shows its dominance of masculinity and sticking his thumbs in his belt, and pointing toward his crotch.

It is important to note these body language attraction signals in everyday life. Once you do, you start to notice more and more people sending signals and becomes a matter of acting on them. I suggest that when you go out, see what others are doing and how they behave near their loved ones, family and friends. After a while, of course, begin to read body language.

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